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1st February 2015, 21:11
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Mo nanya berita finalis miss indoensia 2014 dinikahi baron respati apakah baron respati pemilik asian finance itu yah? Liat fotonya kok beda ya.
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Ya , mereka jadi cover High End Magazine bulan February , coba di check
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1st February 2015, 21:20
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Hi..
Mo nanya berita finalis miss indoensia 2014 dinikahi baron respati apakah baron respati pemilik asian finance itu yah? Liat fotonya kok beda ya.
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Pengusaha Baron Respati yang baru saja menikah dengan finalis Miss Indonesia 2014 Olivia Pramaisella
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1st February 2015, 21:28
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Pengusaha Baron Respati yang baru saja menikah dengan finalis Miss Indonesia 2014 Olivia Pramaisella
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Iy, 19th umurnya dah merit. Ga kuliah ya ?
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1st February 2015, 23:29
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Iy, 19th umurnya dah merit. Ga kuliah ya ?
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indeed, she used to go to uph. but she did not continue her study. what a girl
she was not all that fancy either.
she used to star cheesy tv commercials.
lol. guess that pageant competition brings brighter future.
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2nd February 2015, 04:07
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2nd February 2015, 11:33
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My mother’s letter to sukanto tanoto in dec 1997
This is a letter written by my mother 10 weeks after my father’s air crash. After putting the four children to sleep, she started to think back everything happened after my father passed away: the sudden change of attitude and unexpected actions of my father’s most-trusted brother(such as asking my mother to give him the keys of our houses, sending employees to collect our father’s computer and documents in my father’s study room, asking my mother to sign incredibly broad power of attorney without explaining the purposes, and blocking my mother’s access to my father’s insurance money, etc.), the empty household without its master, and the four children aging from 4 to 10 that might grow up under their uncle’s pressure and bullying throughout their lives. Looking at the children’s sleeping faces, a lot of emotions and thoughts came into her mind. She couldn't help but decided to write a letter at 11 pm.
The letter turned out to be 10 pages long. She completed at 3:31 am 13th Dec 1997 and send it to my uncle on the same day.
It’s a long letter but I try to keep it short.
“Dear Sukanto,
Please forgive me in writing this letter to you and not telling you about my fear and helplessness face to face. After the meeting with you on 16th Nov in Singapore, I feel like I’m abandoned by the Tanoto family. You stripped down all of my pride and self respect. Before the meeting, I was very proud of my husband because he died for the company. To me, he is like a general who fought for the country until the end.
However, instead of saying any comforting word, you scolded me with the harshest words and accusations, and they broke my heart into pieces. I burst into tears every time I think about the words you said. Thinking that Polar would never said such things to me…”
“… My heart sank. I was sad and hurt. I couldn’t imagine that after losing my husband, I have to deal with crisis after crisis before my tears have a chance to dry… ”
“… As a widow with four young children, I do not know how I’m going to handle my life ahead of me. Thinking that my husband was a well-respected man but his wife and children were poorly treated after he passed away. I am so afraid that I cannot protect my husband’s pride… ”
“… I realized when I was still mourning the death of my husband, you have taken all of our legal documents including our marriage certificates and house certificates away. You have even taken Polar’s insurance money. Brother! I do not understand why you have to do these to me. Is this how you want to treat a woman who just lost her husband? Is the rumor that have been going around town true? Brother! This is a very critical moment for my family. You are an intelligent businessman. Please do not lose your mind. Everybody is watching how you are treating your closest brother’s family. Lastly, please remember that if I can only choose between money and pride, I would choose the latter.
Best Regards,
Your Sister-in-law, Barbara Tanoto
3:31 am, 13th Dec 1997″
As a daughter, I feel very emotional about the contents.
My mother was totally overwhelmed by Sukanto’s aggressive actions and accusations. She thought this letter would help Sukanto understand her feeling and situations. But at that time, she didn't know Sukanto would only stop if she gives up my family’s rights to him.
I could not understand why my mother had to ask for mercy from an abuser. However, Sukanto Tanoto saw this letter as a big offense toward his absolute status. He claimed that this letter was “absolutely impolite and offensive, completely hurt [his] feeling” and therefore continued his brutal actions toward my family.
Perhaps for a man who only has money in the eye would never understand the pain of a helpless widow, who decided to write a letter at 3 am in the morning to her husband’s most trusted brother trying to ask for a little pity.
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2nd February 2015, 11:34
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SURAT SAYA IBU ke Sukanto Tanoto Desember 1997
Ini adalah surat yang ditulis oleh ibu saya 10 minggu setelah kecelakaan udara ayahku. Setelah menempatkan empat anak tidur, dia mulai berpikir kembali semuanya yang terjadi setelah ayah saya meninggal: perubahan tiba-tiba sikap dan tindakan tak terduga saudara paling terpercaya ayahku (seperti meminta ibu saya untuk memberinya kunci rumah kami , mengirim karyawan untuk mengumpulkan komputer dan dokumen ayah kami di ruang kerja Ayah, meminta ibu saya untuk menandatangani surat kuasa tanpa menjelaskan tujuan, dan memblokir akses ibuku ke uang asuransi ayahku, dll), rumah tangga kosong tanpa tuannya, dan empat anak dari 4 sampai 10 tahun yang mungkin tumbuh di bawah tekanan paman mereka dan intimidasi sepanjang hidup mereka. Melihat wajah tidur anak-anak, banyak emosi dan pikiran datang ke pikirannya. Dia memutuskan untuk menulis surat pada 11:00.
Surat itu ternyata menjadi 10 halaman. Dia selesai pada 03:31 13 Desember 1997 dan dia kirimkan ke paman saya pada hari yang sama.
Ini surat panjang tapi saya mencoba untuk tetap pendek.
"Sukanto,
Maafkan saya dalam menulis surat ini kepada Anda dan tidak bercerita tentang ketakutan dan ketidakberdayaan saya. Setelah pertemuan dengan Anda di 16 November di Singapura, saya merasa seperti aku ditinggalkan oleh keluarga Tanoto. Anda preteli semua kebanggaan saya dan kehormatan diri. Sebelum pertemuan itu, saya sangat bangga dengan suami saya karena dia meninggal bagi perusahaan. Bagi saya, dia adalah seperti seorang jenderal yang berjuang untuk negara sampai akhir.
Namun, alih-alih mengatakan setiap kata penghibur, Anda memarahi saya dengan kata-kata yang paling keras dan tuduhan-tuduhan. Aku menangis setiap kali saya berpikir tentang kata-kata yang Anda katakan. Aku berpikir bahwa Polar tidak akan pernah mengatakan hal-hal seperti itu untuk saya ... "
"... Hatiku tenggelam. Saya sedih dan sakit hati. Aku tidak bisa membayangkan bahwa setelah kehilangan suami saya, saya harus berurusan dengan krisis setelah krisis sebelum air mataku memiliki kesempatan untuk kering ... "
"... Sebagai seorang janda dengan empat anak-anak, saya tidak tahu bagaimana aku akan menangani masa depanku. Berpikir bahwa suami saya adalah orang yang dihormati tapi istri dan anak-anaknya diperlakukan buruk setelah ia meninggal. Saya sangat takut bahwa saya tidak bisa melindungi kebanggaan suami saya ... "
"... Aku menyadari ketika saya masih berduka karena kematian suami saya, Anda telah mengambil semua dokumen hukum kita termasuk sertifikat pernikahan kami dan sertifikat rumah. Anda bahkan telah mengambil uang asuransi Polar itu. Saudara! Saya tidak mengerti mengapa Anda harus melakukan ini padaku. Apakah ini bagaimana Anda ingin memperlakukan seorang wanita yang baru saja kehilangan suaminya? Apakah rumor yang telah terjadi di sekitar kota benar? Saudara! Ini adalah momen yang sangat penting bagi keluarga saya. Anda adalah seorang pengusaha yang cerdas. Tolong jangan kehilangan pikiran Anda. Semua orang melihat bagaimana Anda memperlakukan keluarga saudara terdekat Anda. Terakhir, ingatlah bahwa jika saya hanya bisa memilih antara uang dan kebanggaan, saya akan memilih yang terakhir.
Salam Hormat,
Kakak Anda, Barbara Tanoto
03:31, 13 Desember 1997 "
Sebagai seorang anak perempuan, aku merasa sangat emosional tentang isi surat itu.
Ibuku benar-benar kewalahan oleh tindakan agresif Sukanto dan tuduhan-tuduhan. Dia pikir surat ini akan membantu Sukanto memahami perasaan dan situasi nya. Tetapi pada saat itu, dia tidak tahu Sukanto hanya akan berhenti jika dia menyerahkan hak keluarga saya kepadanya.
Saya tidak bisa mengerti mengapa ibuku harus meminta belas kasihan dari pelaku. Namun, Sukanto Tanoto melihat surat ini sebagai pelanggaran besar terhadap status mutlak. Dia mengklaim bahwa surat ini adalah "benar-benar sopan dan ofensif, benar-benar menyakiti perasaan [nya]" dan karena itu melanjutkan aksi brutal ke keluarga saya.
Mungkin bagi orang yang hanya memiliki uang tidak akan pernah mengerti rasa sakit seorang janda tak berdaya, yang memutuskan untuk menulis surat pada pukul 3 pagi di pagi hari untuk saudara suaminya yang paling terpercaya, mencoba untuk meminta belas kasihan sedikit.
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2nd February 2015, 11:39
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2nd February 2015, 13:26
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he's busy with MGA and DG.
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2nd February 2015, 15:14
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young mole's collection in Philadelphia.
people in Pekanbaru get dangerous smoke haze. he gets his car.
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