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13th May 2017, 19:35 |
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Tp stelah dulu ktauan kyknya di rem langsung ja kirim somasi ke df, bkn lewat email Quote:
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13th May 2017, 22:02 |
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dari buku Will I ever Be Good Enough, Leho baca Narcissistic Personal Disorder / NPD diturunkan ke generasi generasi berikut, dan kalau enggak ditanggulangi, anak perempuan akan jadi mommy with NPD juga
biasanya Ibu NPD kalau punya anak cowok akan otomatis jadi golden child (yg sebaong apa tetep dipuji dibela), dan yg perempuan jadi scapegoat (yg selalu salah, biasanya scapegoat daughter akan jadi 1 dari 2 kemungkinan: overachiever -prestasi di segala bidang haus pencapaian-, atau jadi self-destruction -narkokob, gaul teu bener bahkan kepikiran bunuh diri dll-), dua duanya ini akan jadi NPD ketika jadi Ibu, kalau tidak ditanggulangi kalau udah jadi NPD, udah di DNA, enggak bisa diapa apain, udah kadung nasib, dan dia enggak akan pernah merasa salah, dan sebetulnya secara enggak sadar dia berlaku kaya begitu, istilahnya bukan salah dia, takdir. tapi kalau daughter, masih bisa ditanggulangi, supaya enggak jadi NPD ketika jadi mummy, dan generasi berikutnya keputus dari rante generasi ke generasi kalau yg anak cowok akan jadi bapak NPD, atau bisa juga dapat istri yg NPD karena terbiasa sama keadaan ibunya yg NPD maaf kalau OOT, hanya berbagi hasil baca buku itu dan nonton beberapa video yutub ttg NPD people dari generasi ke generasi, daughter yg dulunya scapegoat / golden child, akan jadi ibu NPD, anak anaknya perempuan akan jadi scapegoat / golden child, ntar jadi Ibu NPD pula biasanya anak co atau ce, sama sama akan cari pasangan yg NPD, terbiasa ama kondisi rumah ketika tumbuh dulu (berasa "homey"). |
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13th May 2017, 22:09 |
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13th May 2017, 22:42 |
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di nature udah ditanamkan (brain, mindset, sel darah, sel otak, dna)
diaktivasi dengan nurture, hasil : BINGO Buku dengan penjelasan terbaik logis dan enak dibaca, so far: Will I ever Be Good Enough, karangan Karyl McBride, Ph.D. (di Yutub dia ada beberapa video, tapi singkat sih) kalau yutub, Leho dapat beberapa yg bagus, di antaranya video video Lisa A. Romano. yang lain Leho lupa. |
13th May 2017, 23:29 |
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Kocak juga si marissa.
sebenarnya si marissa ini gak kacau2 amat kok hanya karna sering nyinyir di medsos. Cuma mungkin kadang kebablasan. Tapi emang bener juga tuh sindiran si marissa ke si chiko. Dia kan dicerai wanda hamidah yang udah kasih banyak anak. Makanya disindir marissa, semoga punya istri yang bisa bertahan mendampingi suami puluhan tahun. Si ikang pasti seringlah salah sebut nama Christine atau pasti si marissa bisa ngerasa kalau suaminya pikirannya suka melayang ke mantannya Dan disitulah si marissa gua rasa sudah teruji kesetiaannya pada suami. Mau mendampingi Ikang dan bangga menjadi istrinya yang memakai nama suaminya Berarti si marissa mau terima ikang apa adanya. Gak kayak cewek lain yang baperan. Tau suami masih inget2 mantan. Langsung minta cerai dan harta. Si chiko itu dua kali cerai kan? Jadinya menurut gua belum tentu duda cerai dua kali lebih bahagia dibandingkan laki2 yang punya istri bertahan sampe puluhan tahun. |
13th May 2017, 23:39 |
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Sudah sama2 dewasa. Tapi bisa dimaklumi, marissa ini kan anak paling tua Dan kedua orangtuanya pasti menitahkan marissa untuk menjaga adik2nya. Jadi marissa ini ngerasa punya tanggungjawab kalau dia melihat ada adiknya gak bener menurut dia.. Apalagi marissa ini aktif di organisasi islami, pasti takut ditegur komunitasnya kalau dianggap gak bisa mendidik adik2nya Apalagi marissa ini pengajar di kampus muhammadiyah Pasti malu lah kalau disindir mahasiswanya, gimana mau ngajarin oranglain kalau ngajarin adik sendiri aja gak bisa. Jadi mungkin si marissa gak tahan juga buat nyentil si soraya di medsos Dan salah satu tujuan dia sekolah setinggi-tingginya sampe tingginya melebihi genteng kampus IPB Mungkin mau menjaga wibawa di depan adik2nya. Biar jadi kakak yang disegani adik2nya. |
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14th May 2017, 00:06 |
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dan ciri-cirinya gimana. |
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14th May 2017, 00:32 |
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), berbeda dengan narsis
karena kalau narsis (bangga dengan diri sendiri dll) memang normal dan kadarnya memang agak diperlukan sebagai manusia, asal tidak berlebihan NPD juga beda dengan psikopat, walau kadang orang yang serumah dengan NPD akan merasa apa gue gila? karena dampak ditimbulkan dengan NPD yang ketika ada orang lain, sikapnya berbeda dengan ketika dengan orang di rumah. orang rumah kadang kalau cerita aslinya orang NPD, ke orang lain, enggak percaya, karena imej yg dibangun, dan jago pencitraan. malah orang serumah yg nyeritain jadi kesannya kaya ngebohong gitu kalau cerita, saking si NPD ini bagus banget kamuflasenya. aslinya hanya muncul ketika tidak ada orang lain (hanya dia dan orang rumah), ketika di depan orang lain atau ada yg berkunjung, bisa beda 180 derajat, switch. itu baru satu hal, banyak yg lain. tanda-tandanya banyak kalau cari di google (kebanyakan dalam bahasa Inggris, karena kalau di indo mungkin narsis = NPD, padahal beda). kadang di google ada 20-30 ciri yang kalau 15-20 benar, bisa jadi mengidap NPD SIGNS Narcissistic Mother Symptoms Narcissistic Personal Disorder mother source: http://thenarcissisticlife.com/do-i-have-a-narcissistic-mother-21-signs-of-a-narcissistic-mother/ Has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements) Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love Believes that he or she is âspecialâ and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions) Requires excessive admiration Has a very strong sense of entitlement, e.g., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations Is exploitative of others, e.g., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends Lacks empathy, e.g., is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others Is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her Regularly shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes |
14th May 2017, 00:41 |
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source: http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com...mother-survey/
Narcissism is a spectrum disorder with the most severe end of the spectrum considered a narcissistic personality disorder. A woman can have several narcissistic traits and not fit the personality disorder. Mothers with only a few traits listed can negatively affect their daughters in insidious ways which is explained in Dr. McBrideâs book. (Check all those that apply to your relationship with your mother) 1. When you discuss your life issues with your mother, does she divert the discussion to talk about herself? 2. When you discuss your feelings with your mother, does she try to top the feeling with her own? 3. Does your mother act jealous of you? 4. Does your mother lack empathy for your feelings? 5. Does your mother only support those things you do that reflect on her as a âgood mother"? 6. Have you consistently felt a lack of emotional closeness with your mother? 7. Have you consistently questioned whether or not your mother likes you or loves you? 8. Does your mother only do things for you when others can see? 9 When something happens in your life (accident, illness, divorce) does your mother react with how it will affect her rather than how you feel? 10. Is or was your mother overly conscious of what others think (neighbors, friends, family, co-workers)? 11. Does your mother deny her own feelings? 12. Does your mother blame things on you or others rather than own responsibility for her feelings or actions? 13. Is or was your mother hurt easily and then carried a grudge for a long time without resolving the problem? 14. Do you feel you were a slave to your mother? 15. Do you feel you were responsible for your motherâs ailments or sickness (headaches, stress, illness)? 16. Did you have to take care of your motherâs physical needs as a child? 16. Do you feel unaccepted by your mother? 17. Do you feel your mother was critical of you? 18. Do you feel helpless in the presence of your mother? 19. Are you shamed often by your mother? 20. Do you feel your mother knows the real you? 21. Does your mother act like the world should revolve around her? 22. Do you find it difficult to be a separate person from your mother? 23. Does your mother appear phony to you? 24. Does your mother want to control your choices? 25. Does your mother swing from egotistical to a depressed mood? 26. Did you feel you had to take care of your motherâs emotional needs as a child? 27. Do you feel manipulated in the presence of your mother? 28. Do you feel valued by mother for what you do rather than who you are? 29. Is your mother controlling, acting like a victim or martyr? 30. Does your mother make you act different from how you really feel? 31. Does your mother compete with you? 32. Does your mother always have to have things her way? Note: All of these questions relate to narcissistic traits. The more questions you checked, the more likely your mother has narcissistic traits and this has caused some difficulty for you as a growing daughter and adult. ///////////////// untuk yang mungkin ngerasa jleb atau mrebes mili waktu baca list di atas, welcome to the club of the daughters of Narcissistic Personal Disorder mother. It's not you. You are not crazy. It is your mother. begitu katanya, dan juga, ada NPD Mother in Law. maaf panjang dan lama, dan OOT wehehehehehey /////////////// |
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